\u201cSharing can mean something different to every couple<\/strong>,\u201d Galovan said. \u201cIt could be taking turns changing diapers or one parent watching the children while the other prepares dinner. Doing things together and having mutual, agreed-upon divisions of labor benefitted both spouses.\u201d<\/p>\n Galovan and his Brigham Young University and Utah State University colleagues surveyed 160 heterosexual couples to see how the parents divided household responsibilities and how those chores affected the husbands\u2019 and wives\u2019 relationships. The couples were married for an average of five years and had at least one child age five or younger<\/strong>. Most of the parents were between 25 and 30 years old, and about 40 percent of the women had full- or part-time jobs.<\/p>\n \u201cThe more wives perceived that husbands were engaged in routine family work tasks, the better the relationships were for both partners<\/strong>,\u201d Galovan said. \u201cWives in our study viewed father involvement and participation in household chores as related. Doing household chores and being engaged with the children seem to be important ways for husbands to connect with their wives, and that connection is related to better couple relationships.\u201d<\/p>\n The bonds between fathers and their children also contributed to couples\u2019 marital satisfaction, Galovan said.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen wives felt their husbands were close to their children, both spouses reported better marriages,\u201d said Galovan. \u201cThe father-child bond was particularly important for wives.\u201d<\/p>\n Couples should realize that transitioning into parenthood requires an adjustment period, and it is normal for husbands and wives to feel stressed<\/strong>, Galovan said. To counteract the stress, he recommends that parents make each other a priority.<\/p>\n \u201cFind ways to connect throughout the day, even if it\u2019s just doing dishes together or watching a movie,\u201d Galovan said. \u201cThese simple connections in daily life seem to enhance couples\u2019 marital satisfaction and improve the quality of their relationships<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n The study, \u201cFather Involvement, Father-Child Relationship Quality, and Satisfaction with Family Work: Actor and Partner Influences on Marital Quality,\u201d was published in the Journal of Family Issues<\/em>. The Department of Human Development and Family Studies is part of the MU College of Human Environmental Sciences.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" From the University of Missouri press release: Although no exact formula for marital bliss exists, a University of Missouri researcher has found that husbands and wives are happier when they… Read more »<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9,7],"tags":[287,101,279,12],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12046"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12046"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12046\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12083,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12046\/revisions\/12083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12046"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12046"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12046"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"dad](\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/dad_with_baby.jpg\")
<\/a>Although no exact formula for marital bliss exists, a University of Missouri researcher has found that husbands and wives are happier when they share household and child-rearing responsibilities<\/strong>. However, sharing responsibilities doesn\u2019t necessarily mean couples divide chores equally, said Adam Galovan, a doctoral student in the MU Department of Human Development and Family Studies.<\/p>\n