{"id":13583,"date":"2013-06-07T15:43:45","date_gmt":"2013-06-07T19:43:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/?p=13583"},"modified":"2013-06-09T23:25:52","modified_gmt":"2013-06-10T03:25:52","slug":"study-suggests-people-tend-to-lie-about-sex-to-match-gender-expectations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2013\/06\/study-suggests-people-tend-to-lie-about-sex-to-match-gender-expectations\/","title":{"rendered":"Study suggests people tend to lie about sex to match gender expectations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From the Ohio State University press release by Jeff Grabmeier via HealthCanal:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-10595\" alt=\"young love\" src=\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/young_love_couple.jpg\" width=\"270\" height=\"201\" \/><strong>People will lie about their sexual behavior to match cultural expectations about how men or women should act<\/strong> \u2013 even though they wouldn\u2019t distort other gender-related behaviors, new research suggests.<\/p>\n<p>The study found that <strong>men were willing to admit that they sometimes engaged in behaviors seen by college students as more appropriate for women, such as writing poetry<\/strong>. The same was true for women, who didn\u2019t hide the fact that they told obscene jokes, or sometimes participated in other \u201cmale-type\u201d deeds.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But when it came to sex, men wanted to be seen as \u201creal men\u201d &#8212;<\/strong> the kind who had many partners and a lot of sexual experience. Women, on the other hand, wanted to be seen as having less sexual experience than they actually had, to match what is expected of women.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<strong>There is something unique about sexuality that led people to care more about matching the stereotypes for their gender<\/strong>,\u201d said Terri Fisher, author of the study and professor of psychology at The Ohio State University\u2019s Mansfield campus.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSexuality seemed to be the one area where people felt some concern if they didn\u2019t meet the stereotypes of a typical man or a typical woman.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fisher discovered how people would honestly respond to questions about sexuality and other gender-role behaviors by <strong>asking some study participants questions when they thought they were hooked up to a lie detector machine<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>The study appears in a recent issue of the journal <em>Sex Roles<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Participants were 293 college students between the ages of 18 and 25.<\/p>\n<p>The students completed a questionnaire that asked how often they engaged in 124 different behaviors (from never to a few times a day). <strong>People in a previous study had identified all the behaviors to be typical of either males (such as wearing dirty clothes, telling obscene jokes) or females (such as writing poetry, lying about your weight)<\/strong>. Other behaviors were identified as more negative for males (singing in the shower) or more negative for females (poking fun at others).<\/p>\n<p>But some people filled out the questionnaire while they were attached to what they were told was a working polygraph machine or lie detector. (It was actually not working.)<\/p>\n<p>The others were connected to the apparatus before the study began, supposedly to measure anxiety, but the machine was removed before they completed the questionnaire.<\/p>\n<p>In general, the results showed that <strong>both men and women tended to act as would be expected for their gender<\/strong>. Men reported more typical-male behaviors and women reported more typical-female behaviors, regardless of whether they were attached to the lie detector or not.<\/p>\n<p>But for non-sexual behaviors, the participants didn\u2019t seem to feel any added pressure to respond in stereotypical ways for their gender.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, women who were hooked up to the lie detector and those who weren\u2019t were equally likely to admit to bench pressing weights \u2013 a stereotypical male activity.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMen and women didn\u2019t feel compelled to report what they did in ways that matched the stereotypes for their gender for the non-sexual behaviors,\u201d Fisher said.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The one exception was sexual behavior, where, for example, men reported more sexual partners when they weren\u2019t hooked up to the lie detector than whey they were<\/strong>. Women reported fewer partners when they were not hooked up to the lie detector than when they were. A similar pattern was found for reports of ever having experienced sexual intercourse.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMen and women had different answers about their sexual behavior when they thought they had to be truthful,\u201d Fisher said.<\/p>\n<p>This result confirms what Fisher found in an earlier study, back in 2003 \u2013 with one important difference.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Back in 2003, women went from having fewer sexual partners than men (when not hooked up to a lie detector) to being essentially even to men (when hooked up to the lie detector).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In this new study, women actually reported more sexual partners than men when they were both hooked up to a lie detector and thought they had to be truthful.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSociety has changed, even in the past 10 years, and a variety of researchers have found that differences between men and women in some areas of sexual behavior have essentially disappeared,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Fisher said the results of the study may actually be stronger than what was found here. <strong>Although half the participants were not hooked up to the lie detector while completing the questionnaire, they had been hooked up before they started<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSome of the participants may have been made uncomfortable by being attached to the lie detector at first, and that may have led them to be more forthcoming and truthful than they otherwise would have been,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the Ohio State University press release by Jeff Grabmeier via HealthCanal: People will lie about their sexual behavior to match cultural expectations about how men or women should act&#8230; <a class=\"read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2013\/06\/study-suggests-people-tend-to-lie-about-sex-to-match-gender-expectations\/\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[60,7],"tags":[46,12],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13583"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13583"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13583\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13798,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13583\/revisions\/13798"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13583"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13583"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13583"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}