{"id":15271,"date":"2013-08-21T09:25:04","date_gmt":"2013-08-21T13:25:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/?p=15271"},"modified":"2013-08-22T11:46:50","modified_gmt":"2013-08-22T15:46:50","slug":"help-kids-head-back-to-school-with-confidence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2013\/08\/help-kids-head-back-to-school-with-confidence\/","title":{"rendered":"Help kids head back to school with confidence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From the University of Alabama at Birmingham media release:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/school-bus.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-10861\" alt=\"school bus\" src=\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/school-bus.jpg\" width=\"226\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>Getting back on the bus and into the classroom can make children anxious for many reasons<\/strong>, but experts at the University of Alabama at Birmingham (UAB) say good communication can help parents and caregivers ease back-to-school fears.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>Children going into first, sixth <span class=\"ednote\">[seventh in Canada- Ed]<\/span> or ninth grades often have the most anxiety leading into the new school year because they likely are entering a new school<\/strong>,&#8221; says Larry Tyson, Ph.D., associate professor in the Department of Human Studies and coordinator for the Counselor Education program.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When you are the new kid on the block, <strong>not knowing many people can make you self-conscious about how you will fit in<\/strong>,&#8221; said Tyson, who spent 15 years as a middle- and high-school counselor. &#8220;These transition years are big for students figuring out how they will initially fit into this big-school setting.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Tyson suggested forming a partnership with the school counselor, no matter the student&#8217;s age.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>Parents should see counselors as child advocates &#8212; as their liaison in the school when something isn&#8217;t working the way it should or they want<\/strong>,&#8221; Tyson explained. &#8220;My advice is to not be a stranger; make an appointment once or twice a year, and let the people at the school see and hear from you. You don&#8217;t have to have your child with you. This will help.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Starting a new school may not be the only stress-trigger for a child<\/strong>, says Josh Klapow, Ph.D., associate professor in the School of Public Health.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;New situations that arise during the summer &#8212; <strong>changing to a different school system, hitting a growth spurt or experiencing a parental divorce &#8212; all can lead to extra anxiety for a child<\/strong>,&#8221; Klapow said.<\/p>\n<p>To help children adjust, Klapow suggested the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Establish a social connection before going back to school<\/strong> &#8212; one familiar face can reduce stress.<\/li>\n<li>If children are age 12 or younger, <strong>notify the school\/teacher\/counselor if they have experienced a familial change<\/strong> so any struggles can be communicated.<\/li>\n<li>Tweens and teens will not always offer up what is bothering them &#8212; <strong>ask open-ended questions and let them talk to you about what they think will help<\/strong> their situation.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&#8220;Change of any sort can be stressful, so watch your child and be a silent observer,&#8221; Klapow said. &#8220;Give them time to adjust and transition. 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