{"id":16709,"date":"2014-05-08T08:43:17","date_gmt":"2014-05-08T12:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/?p=16709"},"modified":"2014-05-08T10:48:04","modified_gmt":"2014-05-08T14:48:04","slug":"want-a-young-child-to-help-or-be-a-helper-choice-of-words-matters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2014\/05\/want-a-young-child-to-help-or-be-a-helper-choice-of-words-matters\/","title":{"rendered":"Want a young child to help or be a helper? Choice of words matters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From the Society for Research in Child Development media release:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/child-sullen-pouting.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-15434\" alt=\"child sullen pouting\" src=\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/child-sullen-pouting.jpg\" width=\"214\" height=\"290\" \/><\/a>How do you get a preschooler to help with chores and other household tasks? A new study suggests that <strong>adults&#8217; word choice can make a big difference<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>The study, by researchers at the University of California, San Diego, the University of Washington, and Stanford University, appears in the journal <em>Child Development<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>The researchers carried out two experiments with about one hundred and fifty 3- to 6-year-olds from a variety of ethnic and racial backgrounds who came from middle- to upper-middle-class homes. In both experiments, an adult experimenter began by talking to children about helping. <strong>The only difference between the two studies was that in one, helping was referred to with a verb<\/strong> (e.g., &#8220;Some children choose to help&#8221;), while in the other, it was referred to with a noun (e.g., &#8220;Some children choose to be helpers&#8221;). Then the children began playing with toys.<\/p>\n<p><strong>While they were playing, the adult provided four opportunities for the youngsters to stop and help the experimenter<\/strong> &#8212; to pick up a mess, open a container, put away toys, and pick up crayons that had spilled on the floor. In each case, the children had to stop playing to help.<\/p>\n<p>The researchers also gathered baseline data, looking at to what extent a child chose to help the experimenter when helping was never mentioned.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Children who heard the noun wording (helper) helped significantly more than children who heard the verb wording (help)<\/strong>. When the experimenter talked to youngsters about helping, using verb wording, the children didn&#8217;t help any more than when the experimenter never brought up helping at all.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;These findings suggest that <strong>parents and teachers can encourage young children to be more helpful by using nouns like helper instead of verbs like helping when making a request of a child<\/strong>,&#8221; says Christopher J. Bryan, assistant professor of psychology at the University of California, San Diego, who worked on the study. &#8220;Using the noun helper may send a signal that helping implies something positive about one&#8217;s identity, which may in turn motivate children to help more.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Summarized from <em>Child Development, &#8220;Helping&#8221; Versus &#8220;Being a Helper&#8221;: Invoking the Self to Increase Helping in Young Children<\/em>, by Bryan, CJ (University of California, San Diego), Master, A (University of Washington), and Walton, GM (Stanford University). Copyright 2014 The Society for Research in Child Development, Inc. 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