{"id":18731,"date":"2016-02-04T00:50:26","date_gmt":"2016-02-04T05:50:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/?p=18731"},"modified":"2016-02-04T00:50:39","modified_gmt":"2016-02-04T05:50:39","slug":"helicopter-parents-take-extreme-approach-to-homework","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2016\/02\/helicopter-parents-take-extreme-approach-to-homework\/","title":{"rendered":"Helicopter parents take extreme approach to homework"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From the Queensland University of Technology\u00a0media release:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p id=\"first\" class=\"lead\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-14285\" src=\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/father-reading-to-child.jpg\" alt=\"father reading to child\" width=\"290\" height=\"193\" \/>Parents who take the overparenting approach, known as helicopter parenting, are <strong>possibly hindering their child&#8217;s development by becoming too heavily involved in homework<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<div id=\"text\">\n<p>A QUT study involving 866 parents from three Brisbane Catholic\/independent schools found those who endorse overparenting beliefs tend to take more responsibility for their child doing their homework and also expect their child&#8217;s teachers to take more responsibility for it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There is concern this greater parental involvement in ensuring homework is completed, particularly in high school, <strong>is actually impacting the child&#8217;s ability to take responsibility for their homework or understand the consequences of their actions<\/strong>,&#8221; said QUT Clinical Psychologist Dr Judith Locke.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The irony is a helicopter parenting style with the goal of fostering academic achievement could be undermining the development of independent and resilient performance in their children.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Parental involvement is a child&#8217;s school experience is considered an important factor in their academic success and homework is a key aspect of that. However<strong> it seems some parents may take the notion too far and continue to assist children at an age the child should be taking most of the responsibility<\/strong> for their academic work, such as the senior school years.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>Parental assistance with homework should slowly reduce as a child gets older and daily parental involvement in an adolescent&#8217;s homework would be developmentally inappropriate<\/strong>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;These parents appear to not only help their child more, they also expect their child&#8217;s teachers to help them more, particularly in the middle school and senior school years.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We know from recent research, that there may be a point where parental assistance ceases to be beneficial, especially<strong> as children reach adolescence and young adulthood, and can result in poor resilience, entitlement and reduced sense of responsibility<\/strong>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dr Locke said studies in America which reported on parental over-involvement in a student&#8217;s university life found it to be extremely detrimental.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Some parents choose their adult child&#8217;s subjects, edit or complete their assignments and badger lecturers to improve their child&#8217;s grades,&#8221; Dr Locke said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>When these parents are making these decisions or providing academic pressure it has been found the adult student disengages from their education<\/strong> and often has increased depression and decreased satisfaction with life.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>The results of this study may go some way to explain why some parents are continuing to be highly involved in their adult child&#8217;s academic life<\/strong>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The &#8216;Overparenting and Homework: The Student&#8217;s Task, But Everyone&#8217;s Responsibility&#8217; study, which used the new Locke Parenting Scale (LPS) overparenting measure, will be published by the <em>Journal of Psychologists and Counsellors in Schools<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Participating parents completed online questionnaires about their parenting beliefs and intentions, and their attitudes associated with their child&#8217;s homework.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Parental help can be constructive by showing interest and coaching them to complete their work, but unconstructive assistance includes telling a child the right answer or taking over from them when they are completing school tasks,&#8221; Dr Locke said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Those who scored highly on the LPS measure in our study may have been reacting to greater academic difficulties of their child and without an objective measure of the child&#8217;s academic skills we cannot rule that out.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;However, <strong>this study is one of the first to indicate that overparenting may result in parenting actions and expectations of their child&#8217;s school<\/strong> which may not enable children to fully develop academic responsibility and self-regulation skills.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dr Locke added that further research should examine whether extreme parental attitudes and reported behaviours were having a negative effect on students or resulting in children taking more responsibility for their homework.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the Queensland University of Technology\u00a0media release: Parents who take the overparenting approach, known as helicopter parenting, are possibly hindering their child&#8217;s development by becoming too heavily involved in homework&#8230;. <a class=\"read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2016\/02\/helicopter-parents-take-extreme-approach-to-homework\/\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[319,9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18731"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18731"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18731\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18768,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18731\/revisions\/18768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}