{"id":30811,"date":"2020-02-08T09:09:13","date_gmt":"2020-02-08T14:09:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/?p=30811"},"modified":"2020-01-27T23:55:11","modified_gmt":"2020-01-28T04:55:11","slug":"study-examines-self-perceptions-of-ability-to-lie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2020\/02\/study-examines-self-perceptions-of-ability-to-lie\/","title":{"rendered":"Study examines self-perceptions of ability to lie"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From the University of Portsmouth press release:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p id=\"first\" class=\"lead\"><strong>Men are twice as likely as women to consider themselves to be good at lying and at getting away with it<\/strong>, new research has found.<\/p>\n<div id=\"text\">\n<p><strong>People who excel at lying are good talkers and tell more lies than others<\/strong>, usually to family, friends, romantic partners and colleagues, according to the research led by Dr Brianna Verigin, at the University of Portsmouth.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Expert liars also prefer to lie face-to-face, rather than via text messages<\/strong>, and social media was the least likely place where they&#8217;d tell a lie.<\/p>\n<p>Dr Verigin, who splits her time between the Universities of Portsmouth and Maastricht, in the Netherlands, said: &#8220;We found a significant link between expertise at lying and gender. Men were more than twice as likely to consider themselves expert liars who got away with it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Previous research has shown that most people tell one-two lies per day, but that&#8217;s not accurate, most people don&#8217;t lie everyday but a small number of prolific liars are responsible for the majority of lies reported.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What stood out in our study was that <strong>nearly half (40 per cent) of all lies are told by a very small number of deceivers<\/strong>. And these people will lie with impunity to those closest to them.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<strong>Prolific liars rely on a great deal on being good with words, weaving their lies into truths<\/strong>, so it becomes hard for others to distinguish the difference, and <strong>they&#8217;re also better than most at hiding lies within apparently simple, clear stories which are harder for others to doubt<\/strong>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dr Verigin quizzed 194 people, half men and half women, with an average age of 39.<\/p>\n<p>They were asked a series of questions including how good they were at deceiving others, how many lies they&#8217;d told in the past 24 hours, the type of lies they&#8217;d told, who to, and whether they&#8217;d done so face-to-face or via other means.<\/p>\n<p>She said: &#8220;Time after time, studies have shown we are not as good at detecting lies as we think we are. At best, most of us have a 50:50 chance of getting it right when someone is pulling the wool over our eyes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We wanted to focus on those who are good at lying and try to understand how they do it and to whom.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The study found one of the key strategies of liars is to <strong>tell plausible lies that stay close to the truth, and to not give away much information<\/strong>. And the better someone thinks they are at lying, the more lies they&#8217;ll tell.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The most commonly used strategy among all those who admitted to lying<\/strong>, whether experts or poor liars, <strong>was to leave out certain information<\/strong>. But expert liars added to that an ability to weave a believable story embellished with truth, making the lies harder to spot.<\/p>\n<p>In contrast, those who thought they weren&#8217;t good at lying resorted, when they did lie, to being vague.<\/p>\n<p>Overall, of the 194 people, the most common types of deception, in descending order, were &#8216;white lies&#8217;, exaggerations, hiding information, burying lies in a torrent of truth and making up things.<\/p>\n<p>Most people chose to lie face-to-face, then via text message, a phone call, email, and last, via social media.<\/p>\n<p>Most expert liars lie most often to family, friends or colleagues. Employers and authority figures were least likely to be lied to.<\/p>\n<p>The study showed <strong>no link between level of education and lying ability<\/strong>. Dr Verigin said more research needs to be done, particularly on better understanding good liars&#8217; expertise at embedding lies within truthful information, and at using facts that were impossible to check.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the University of Portsmouth press release: Men are twice as likely as women to consider themselves to be good at lying and at getting away with it, new research&#8230; <a class=\"read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2020\/02\/study-examines-self-perceptions-of-ability-to-lie\/\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":24029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[526],"tags":[12],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30811"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30811"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30811\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30925,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30811\/revisions\/30925"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24029"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}