{"id":3795,"date":"2012-06-16T12:42:17","date_gmt":"2012-06-16T16:42:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/?p=3795"},"modified":"2012-06-16T16:52:21","modified_gmt":"2012-06-16T20:52:21","slug":"study-suggests-persistence-is-learnt-from-dads-who-parent-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/news\/2012\/06\/study-suggests-persistence-is-learnt-from-dads-who-parent-well\/","title":{"rendered":"Study suggests persistence is learnt from dads who parent well"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From the BYU press release via EurekAlert!:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" title=\"dad and kid\" src=\"http:\/\/therapytoronto.ca\/images\/blogpics\/DadAndKid.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"309\" height=\"200\" \/>When the going gets tough, the tough ought to thank their fathers.<\/p>\n<p>New research from Brigham Young University shows that <strong>dads are in a unique position to help their adolescent children develop persistence<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>BYU professors Laura Padilla-Walker and Randal Day arrived at these findings after following 325 families over several years. And over time, <strong>the persistence gained through fathers lead to higher engagement in school and lower rates of delinquency<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In our research we ask &#8216;Can your child stick with a task? Can they finish a project? Can they make a goal and complete it?'&#8221; Day said. &#8220;Learning to stick with it sets a foundation for kids to flourish and to cope with the stress and pressures of life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The scholars from BYU&#8217;s School of Family Life report their findings June 15 in the <em>Journal of Early Adolescence. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There are relatively few studies that highlight the unique role of fathers,&#8221; Padilla-Walker said. &#8220;This research also helps to establish that traits such as persistence \u2013 which can be taught \u2013 are key to a child&#8217;s life success.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The key is for dads to practice what&#8217;s called<strong> &#8220;authoritative&#8221; parenting<\/strong> \u2013 not to be confused with authoritarian. Here are the three basic ingredients:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Children feel warmth and love from their father<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Accountability and the reasons behind rules are emphasized<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Children are granted an appropriate level of autonomy<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>About 52 percent of the dads in the study exhibited above-average levels of authoritative parenting. Over time, their kids were significantly more likely to develop persistence, which lead to better outcomes in school and lower levels of delinquency.<\/p>\n<p>This particular study examined 11-14 year olds residing in two-parent homes. Yet the study authors suggest that single parents still may play a role in teaching the benefits of persistence, which is an avenue of future research.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Fathers should continue to try and be involved in their children&#8217;s lives and engage in high quality interactions, even if the quantity of those interactions might be lower than is desirable,&#8221; Padilla-Walker said.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the BYU press release via EurekAlert!: When the going gets tough, the tough ought to thank their fathers. 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